by Cyrus Webb
Melissa, it has been great watching you rise and thrive over the decades we’ve known each other. What has it been like for you to do work that you love and see the response to it?
Thank you, Cyrus! As you know, I am one of those girls whose passions have grown and changed over the years. You have known me as an artist, retail manager, office manager, and now as a teacher. While my art and my teaching are 100% passion-driven, some of those jobs were less like a labor of love and more like a way to pay the bills. But I have always enjoyed what I did, because what I have always truly loved is interacting with people. People everywhere need to be seen, heard, and loved… I believe I have made deep connections with people because they know that I love them and that I truly listen to them.
As you mentioned outside of being my friend, you are also a talented artist and gifted educator. When did you realize that you have gifts that were meant to be shared?
This is such an exciting question, because guess what? I am STILL realizing my gifts! I am blessed to have been surrounded by people who treated me like a rockstar from the moment I was born, so I always felt that everything I shared was a gift. As I have grown older, I realize how important that feeling of self-worth is. It is what I wish for everyone! In fact, that wish is the driving force as I grow into the next part of my teaching journey. Through speaking sessions and my new website www.yesyall.org, I hope to create a community of educators who help our students and each other showcase our amazing talents and do phenomenal things.
Mississippi is not always recognized for the talent that we have. What do you hope your students and those around you realize about what is possible, regardless of where they are from?
Regardless of where we are from or what we look like or what our pasts look like, our futures are wide open. We are all rockstars and we are all worthy of great things! At this moment - right now - grab a pen and jot down three (of the many) gifts you have. Look at what you just wrote. How awesome are you?!?!? I am telling you this: it is a crying shame for the whole world not to know about your gifts. Start. Sharing. God created us as glorious creatures. Let’s allow ourselves to bask in each other’s magnificence!
I know that one of your greatest achievements in life has been becoming a mother. How has motherhood shaped you and the way you see the world?
Oh, Cyrus. I am afraid I cannot fully answer this question without asking you to publish a novel. Just know this: motherhood, for me, took the concept of love to a whole new level. My children have taught me so much that sometimes I feel like I knew nothing before I had them. They have taught me sympathy, humility, and gratitude. Through raising my boys I have learned that if you love someone or something hard enough, you can power through the most difficult and frightening things. And perhaps most importantly, being a mother has taught me that it’s OK not to be perfect. Someone can need and love me… for me… just as I am.
Fear is something we all deal with. How do you keep it from stopping you from doing things that you know you’re meant to do?
I AVOID TWINKLE TICKS! You know these parasites. They are the people who cause you to doubt yourself. I’m over here, trying to shine like the rockstar I really am, and along comes this person who tries to suck all of the radiance right out of me. I REFUSE TO LET THIS HAPPEN! Instead, I surround myself with people who lift me up and help me shine. So if I feel myself hesitating to make bold moves due to a fear of failure, I turn to my community of superstars who remind me that I am capable of amazing things and worthy of success.
Success means different things to different people. What does success look like for you at this point in your life?
Like many of your readers, I am sure, I wear an awful lot of hats in my life - mother, wife, teacher, leader, etc. Ultimately, success happens when I walk the path of God’s light. Exactly what that looks like depends on which hat I am wearing, but I can tell you this: I feel successful in every role when the people with whom I interact achieve more than they thought possible, and they feel proud of themselves. This is true in regard to my students, my coworkers, my friends, and my family.
My new role as a public speaker takes this to another level, as I can reach so many more people. Educators are coming to my speaking sessions, taking my “Yes, y’all!” message to their classrooms, and their students are doing amazing things. The students are proud of themselves, the teachers are proud of their students, and the teachers are proud of themselves. THAT is success.
What advice do you have for our readers when it comes to being a success story in their own community?
Do not convince yourself that it would just take too much work - it is SO easy! Many times, making a difference in the lives of others is just as simple as saying “Yes!” Other times it may be that you are giving someone else in your community the opportunity to say “Yes!” And while that may require a text, email, or phone call, you will be surprised at how many people are out there looking for an opportunity to do something good and make a difference. For instance, before one of my most recent speaking events I asked the operator of the local Chick-fil-A if he would be willing to donate a few gift cards for the educators in attendance. Not only did he agree, but he drove them to me himself and donated - not a few - ONE HUNDRED! It meant so much to the attendees; it meant a so much to me; and it meant so much to him.
So my advice is: don’t waste an opportunity to say, “Yes, y’all!”
Thank you for your time and for your friendship over the years, Melissa. How can our audience stay connected with you?
Oh my goodness, Cyrus, I would be so honored for your readers to be a part of my “Yes, Y’all” movement! If you are interested in learning more, have an amazing “Yes, Y’all” story to tell - or maybe you just want to say hi - you can contact me through my website www.yesyall.org, or you can email me at hello@yesyall.org.











